Do you think your past relationships failed because guys didn’t find you interesting? To you want to be more appealing to the next guy you date? Well, you have come to the right place. In this blog post, we will make all your doubts go away and tell you not one, but several ways to make sure that the guy you date likes you.
It is not just one thing that triggers the interest of a guy, but several things. Forget about all the advice your friends might have given you like let him chase you, make him jealous, hide your interest, and play games. These things might work in the short run, but not in the long run. It is time to start with a clean slate.
Here are a few things that will help you get a guy to like you:
1. Flirt Your Way into His Heart
This is probably the most basic and surefire way to get a guy to like you – flirting. Even if you are already dating, flirting is a must. It keeps the spark alive in a relationship.
Now, you just met this guy and are head over heels for him. Show him that you are interested in flirting with him. Men can sometimes be oblivious to your cues, so you have to smack him in the head with flirting. Observe his moments and use all the subtle cues to your advantage. Don’t take it too far though, keep it casual and fun. You don’t want to appear desperate. Laugh at his jokes, maintain eye contact, smile, and compliment him to show your interest. Some causal banter never hurts either. Be confident and flirty, he will not be able to resist you.
2. Be Happy and Confident
No one likes a sob-fest. And trust us, nothing is sexier than you being happy. Happiness can be infectious and is one of the best ways to get a guy to like you. If you are confident and happy, the guy you like will be drawn towards you like a moth to a flame. Of course, you are allowed to have some off days, but that does not mean you whine all the time. Be optimistic, lively, and cheerful, he will surely fall for you.
3. Don’t Give Too Much Information on the First Date
Your first date is going to be the foundation of your relationship, so you have to make sure that it goes well. There are a few things that you have to avoid talking about, or he will go running towards the hills.
You need to preserve the mystery as long as you can, that will help pique the guy’s interest. Topics like religion, marriage, exes, and politics should be avoided at all costs on the first date.
Talk casually and get to know each other. Look for the spark and don’t give out too much information. You can cover all that in the “get to know each other” part of the relationship and not the first date.
4. Know What to Say
A lot of times, a guy’s interest dies because you said the wrong thing. Some women get so flustered when they come face to face with a guy they like, that they blurt out the first thing that comes to their mind. The power of words is something you should never take for granted. Men are attracted to sweet and sassy women, not an ogling deer. Don’t just fill the silence with useless words. Find a topic you both like and have a conversation on it with confidence.
5. Don’t be Clingy
Don’t be one of those girlfriends who want to know every single detail of their partners. Don’t ask for his passwords or check his cell phone messages, that’s just being clingy. Give him his space. That way, he will not feel smothered. And remember – a codependent relationship is not healthy. Both of you should have interests outside of each other. The guy will be more attracted to you if you are not breathing down his neck all the time.
6. Show Support and Appreciation
Showing that you value his ideas and appreciate his interest draws a man towards you. Observe the little things that he likes to do, and show him that you value them. Talk to each other about how your days went.
7. The Way to a Man’s Heart is…
You must have heard that phrase – the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Want to lock down a guy? Easy, make him his favorite dish. Not only will he fall for you but he will also see that you care for him and want to make him happy. And let’s face it – who can resist food?
8. Dress to Impress
Physical attraction plays a big role in the path towards true love. That does not mean that you have to change yourself to impress him, but staying groomed is not just for him.
Staying presentable and dressing up sexily can defiantly spark a flame between you two. And when we say dressing sexily, we don’t mean you have to show too much skin. Even jeans and a t-shirt is sexy.
9. The Final Verdict
He likes me, he likes me not. Stop playing with the flower petals and read the subtle clues he throws your way. Sometimes guys have a hard time saying those magical words, but actions speak louder than words. Read between the lines and see if he is dropping any clues your way.
Now that you know all these secrets, are you ready to go out there and bag the guy of your dreams? Great, have fun!