It may sound cliché but it’s every woman’s dream to “fall in love with a great guy who loves and respects her. See him bend down on his knees to propose to her with a beautiful ring. Later, walk down the aisle, tie the knot and say ‘I do’; and then live happily ever after with him.” However, this dream doesn’t come true for every woman due to different reasons. Sometimes it’s the woman who is dealing with her own insecurities or the man is noncommittal.
In some situations, the woman may think it’s the perfect time to take the relationship to the next level—(aka marriage). While the man may think that it’s too early to decide and make a lifetime commitment. Who’s wrong? Well, no one because both partners are viewing the relationship from their perspective. And that’s perfectly normal. But it’s also true that men are more laid back and don’t really think of marriage like women do. Even if they would like to spend the rest of their lives with their partners, they’d take their time before they propose to you but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love you.
So ladies, if you really think it’s the right time to take your relationship to a whole another level, and want him to commit to you then let us help you make the impossible, possible. How to get him to commit to you may seem like a huge challenge to surpass but it’s actually quite easy. The key is to do it subtly and not force it. Let him realize how beautiful his life will be if he commits and what he might lose if he doesn’t make the move now. But remember you need to patient and subtle. So, are you ready to make him want to commit to you?
Then here’s what you need to do….
Sounds superficial but self-love is truly important. To ensure an everlasting relationship, you need to put in hard work and a great deal of effort at all times. And that is only possible if you take good care of yourself by eating well, and looking and feeling your best. Therefore, spend time with friends, pursue career goals, pamper yourself by going to the salon, exercise and eat healthy. All this will help foster your emotional, personal and mental growth outside of the relationship. And believe it or not, men love beautiful, well-maintained, ambitious and confident women with high self-esteem.
Bring the Heat
To get him to commit, he has to be head-over-heels for you. For that, you need to make sure that he is sexually attracted to you. If he doesn’t feel that physical attraction then nothing else matters. Though physical attraction is a part of a beautiful and healthy relationship, it is also the foundation.
Therefore, you need to make sure that intimacy is soaring high—always. Regardless of how many months or years you’ve been together, it should never go out of the window or take the back seat so to say. Bring the heat on by getting your sexy out. Work on yourself such as:
- Get in your best shape.
- Learn how to put makeup on so that you can enhance your best features.
- Master attractive body language.
- Dress to impress.
- Learn some great moves to blow his mind in bed.
- Train your voice to sound pleasant.
Simply put, you need to make sure that you’re irresistible for him.
Implicitly Trust Him
Don’t let your insecurities get the best of you because that can wreck a great relationship. It’s evident that you are insecure if you continue to put pressure on him to commit. So, you need to let your insecurities out of the way by trusting him implicitly. Don’t doubt him, nag, cross-question, suspect, or be overly possessive about him. If he says that he loves you, then you need to trust him and give him his space. This can make a huge difference in terms of how your man thinks of you. Men like their space and appreciate women who give them room to breathe and be who they are, instead of being around them all the time.
Besides this, when you’re not around them all the time, they will want to miss you and they’d want to reach out to you more than you want to. That will inevitably make him want you more and you never know he might also think that it’s time to commit before he loses you. So, trust is vital for a strong and long-lasting relationship.
As women are always in the quest of perfection, they’d expect the same from men. When they fail to meet their expectations, nagging and complaining become a norm. So, why not embrace imperfections and make life easy for both sides. The best way to ensure this is to be more appreciative and avoid frequent nagging. Men don’t want to commit to women who are always nagging and don’t appreciate them for what they do for them.
Start appreciating the little things such as: thank him for holding the door for you, or for bringing latte even if it is not how you like your coffee. Acknowledge his loving and kind gestures. Show him that you appreciate him. This will make him feel pretty awesome around you. When you will appreciate him, it will bring out the best in him and he’d realize how you have made him be the best version of himself. And eventually, he’d love to be around you more and commit to you for life.
Touch Him Deeply with Affection and Care
Affection and care are essential to nurture a growing and ever-lasting relationship. So, when it comes to how to get him to commit then touch him deeply by showing your affection and care for him. Make sure to keep romantic gestures, loving demeanor, and sensual touches a part of your day-to-day interaction. Care for him by going the extra mile. Also, make him feel amazing by motivating and complementing him every now and then.
If you’re that good, and he loves being with you then why would he want to be with someone else than you?