“He loves me, he loves me not; he loves me, he loves me not.” Instead of looking for the answer in flower petals, look closely at the signs.
Guys never flat out say, “I love you”; don’t know why. It would be so much easier than you trying to decode the messages.
Life is not always like a romantic comedy.
Your heart beats faster every time you think of him?
You feel confused if he does not respond to your messages or phone calls?
It would seem that you are in love. Congratulations! 🙂
But is it mutual? Instead of letting your imaginations run wild, here are 6 Signs he Loves you back.
1. Future Planning
If he is not committed, he won’t make plans. Sure, he can make plans for the next couple of days, but not for the long-term.
If he does not make plans past a few weeks, he might like you, but love is not in the picture here. Get out of that relationship ASAP.
But if you find a guy who plans his future with you, he is a keeper.
Making long-term plans means he sees you two having a future together, and that is a clear cut sign that he loves you.
2. He Buys you Food
This might not seem like a big thing, but trust us; it is.
When you are out on a date, of course, he might insist on paying for it. But if he shows up at your doorstep with takeout from your favorite restaurant when you are down, it means he knows you well enough.
This indicates that he is in it for a long haul.
3. Replies to Your Texts Instantly
Does he reply to your texts immediately; or takes a couple of hours to get back to you. That is a big indication if he loves you or just likes you.
The tone and length of his replies also matter. Does he try to keep the conversation going or just gives one-word answers?
If he can stay up half the night texting you, or messages you in the middle of the day with an “I miss you” text, you have found your soul mate.
4. Your Happiness Matters to Him
Someone who loves you will want to give the world to you, no matter what. He will try to avoid anything and everything that might upset you.
If your boyfriend goes out of his way to make you laugh and keep you happy, he is definitely in love with you.
5. He Introduced you to his Friends and Family
Trust us; he would not have introduced you to his friends if he wasn’t planning for you to stay around for a long time. His words while he is introducing you also show his feelings towards you. Did he introduce you as his friend or his girlfriend?
Crossing that barrier of family introduction also means that he is serious about the relationship and you are important to him. He might be able to say it using his words, but this action of his is a clear sign.
Actions speak louder than words. These are all the symptoms of a man in love.
Don’t worry, the declaration isn’t far. You will be planning your wedding in no time.
6. He touches you
When a guy is constantly touching some part of you, it’s quite evident that he’s really into you. Not only in a sexual context but also by holding your hand in the street, hugging you, kissing you…
Although that does not necessarily mean it’s a sign that he loves you, it still shows some kind of attraction, and the need to be closer.
7. You come first
When a guy is starting to fall in love, he will place you at the top of his priorities in his life.
By putting you first, he will become more and more interested in you and your interests. Asking about your life and your interests. He’ll also try to do things that align with your interests. For example, if you’re a nature lover he’ll take you to a special beautiful place full of trees and flowers.
Of course, it is always good and healthy to keep your own circle of friends and maintain your own interests and hobbies. But in time, he will much rather be with you instead of hanging out with his buddies.
8. He is there when you need him
If you need him, for whatever reason, he’s there, it doesn’t matter why and when.
He doesn’t drag his feet or complain about it, or remind you later that he helped you out.
Someone who loves you will support you and help you overcome anything.
Not because he needs to, but because he wants to. Because you are to him the most important thing in his life, so he’ll naturally act like it without thinking twice.