should I date him?

Updated on December 12, 2018 in Dating
2 on December 12, 2018

I met this nice cute guy at a party and we hit it off and we had sex that night, honestly we both were drunk so I obviously expected nothing after. Anyway…he contacted me and we went on a date few days later and he said he wants a relationship not just a hookup.

The problem is, he just got out of a super intense relationship and breakup 6 weeks ago. He said it wasn’t easy on him and he was bawling his eyes out for days after. (He didn’t flat out offer this information but I kind of probed him.) he only dated her for 8-9 months so I thought it wasn’t that serious.

He says he’s over it and actually wants us to go skiing for a week soon. He even asked if I want kids one day (not with him, just in general.)

He says he’s over the breakup and wants a relationship, should I believe him? He’s so charming and flirty and doesn’t seem sad honestly. I know him and his ex still randomly text and talk on the phone but I’m not sure how often and about what.

Also he didn’t mention her at all until I asked about his last relationship, almost like he was pretending it wasn’t there.

Any tips please?

 
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Bad idea to go away for a week with a stranger! 
I wouldn’t advise even a weekend away until at least 2-3 months in.
He said “he’s just living in the moment” what does that even mean?
Going with the flow? Whose? His?
His ex still loves him? How did he hurt her? Who ended it? 

on December 12, 2018

Bad idea to go away for a week with a stranger! 
I wouldn’t advise even a weekend away until at least 2-3 months in.
He said “he’s just living in the moment” what does that even mean?
Going with the flow? Whose? His?
His ex still loves him? How did he hurt her? Who ended it? 

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indeed

 

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